“choosing progress over perfection“
I thought blogging would be a breeze—millennial, marketer, tech-savvy (ish). And yet, here I am—stumbling, overthinking, obsessing over aesthetics, SEO, and all the things. But damn it, I set a goal: no matter what, I will hit publish before the clock strikes midnight.
Truth is, I bought this domain in September 2022, a couple of months after my near-death experience—an event that flipped my life upside down. It made me ask: Why am I here on earth? So this blog exists to help me answer that question, to put my thoughts into words—something I never did Before Drowning (BD). Life is now BD and After Drowning (AD)—like BC and AD, but with more existential dread.
Despite my sizeable social media following, I’m writing under a pseudonym—because the internet is both brutal and beautiful. I want to do this without filters or expectations—just raw truth, honesty, and vulnerability. Because here’s the thing: I’ve always felt alone, and, I know I’m not the only one. If we were just a little more real with each other, maybe it wouldn’t feel so isolating.
So here I am, writing. Not perfectly, just honestly.

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